Do you want more love in your life? Do you want to heal old hurts from past loves? Do you want to connect deeply with a current love in your life? Throughout your life you will always have one constant, one person showing up in your life over and over again. No it's not your mother, it's YOU! The fastest and easiest way to find true love is not by looking out there for it, but by looking inside. Working on you. Here is an exercise you can start on today.
Who do I want?...to be
1. Get out a pen and paper
2. Write down the top 5 - 10 things you are looking for in a partner or would like more of from your current partner.
3. Now start from the top and write 5 - 10 ways YOU would be willing to do these things for yourself or how you could nurture and grow these qualities within YOU!
Here is an example from my own life:
My husband is working towards his Bachelor Degree in Engineering. He is also working 30 hours a week. Throughout the semester I am constantly feeling neglected and ignored. Although I know and honor that he is doing a great thing for himself, me, and our future together, part of me is still resentful. This is the part that I must handle. So here is how my list might look:
I really want more time with my husband. I want more attention, care and nurturing. I want help cleaning the house.
Here is a list of what I am willing to do for MYSELF:
hire a housecleaner
get a massage
take a bath
get together with women friends
get a pedicure
Taking action on these items is the most important thing you can do for yourself. Growing yourself towards the love you want is the fastest and easiest way to attract the relationship you desire!
